Hey guys Im new to this site and all,I was just wondering what are your opinions on calling girls Hey hun,hey babe,hey darl etc Does this come across as AFC and too nice if so do you guys have any better suggestions to use ? thanks
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Opinions on calling chicks hun/babe etc....
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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stick to baby, girls dont like babe and hun isnt even somethin a guy should be saying
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Little nicknames are cute, but certain ones just make you look like half of an old married couple. Stuff like "sugar" or "honey" or "sweetie" just scream out that you like her way more than she likes you.
Just say things like "babygirl" or "baby", and even then, only if you can play it off naturally. There's nothing scarier than a mild-mannered quiet kinda guy that walks up to a girl and tries to be smooth by saying "Hey baby".
Just say things like "babygirl" or "baby", and even then, only if you can play it off naturally. There's nothing scarier than a mild-mannered quiet kinda guy that walks up to a girl and tries to be smooth by saying "Hey baby".
donjuanjovi
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Saying stupid baby names like that makes it look like you're owned. Stick with her name.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
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I've call women that I'm friendly with "baby" in normal conversation out of habit and I have been told by a few they like it. Oh well, if it works run with it! 