Hey guys Im new to this site and all,I was just wondering what are your opinions on calling girls Hey hun,hey babe,hey darl etc Does this come across as AFC and too nice if so do you guys have any better suggestions to use ? thanks
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Opinions on calling chicks hun/babe etc....
- Thread starter Anfz
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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stick to baby, girls dont like babe and hun isnt even somethin a guy should be saying
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Little nicknames are cute, but certain ones just make you look like half of an old married couple. Stuff like "sugar" or "honey" or "sweetie" just scream out that you like her way more than she likes you.
Just say things like "babygirl" or "baby", and even then, only if you can play it off naturally. There's nothing scarier than a mild-mannered quiet kinda guy that walks up to a girl and tries to be smooth by saying "Hey baby".
Just say things like "babygirl" or "baby", and even then, only if you can play it off naturally. There's nothing scarier than a mild-mannered quiet kinda guy that walks up to a girl and tries to be smooth by saying "Hey baby".
donjuanjovi
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Saying stupid baby names like that makes it look like you're owned. Stick with her name.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I've call women that I'm friendly with "baby" in normal conversation out of habit and I have been told by a few they like it. Oh well, if it works run with it! 