Hey guys Im new to this site and all,I was just wondering what are your opinions on calling girls Hey hun,hey babe,hey darl etc Does this come across as AFC and too nice if so do you guys have any better suggestions to use ? thanks
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Opinions on calling chicks hun/babe etc....
- Thread starter Anfz
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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stick to baby, girls dont like babe and hun isnt even somethin a guy should be saying
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Little nicknames are cute, but certain ones just make you look like half of an old married couple. Stuff like "sugar" or "honey" or "sweetie" just scream out that you like her way more than she likes you.
Just say things like "babygirl" or "baby", and even then, only if you can play it off naturally. There's nothing scarier than a mild-mannered quiet kinda guy that walks up to a girl and tries to be smooth by saying "Hey baby".
Just say things like "babygirl" or "baby", and even then, only if you can play it off naturally. There's nothing scarier than a mild-mannered quiet kinda guy that walks up to a girl and tries to be smooth by saying "Hey baby".
donjuanjovi
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Saying stupid baby names like that makes it look like you're owned. Stick with her name.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Francisco d'Anconia
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I've call women that I'm friendly with "baby" in normal conversation out of habit and I have been told by a few they like it. Oh well, if it works run with it! 