Hey guys Im new to this site and all,I was just wondering what are your opinions on calling girls Hey hun,hey babe,hey darl etc Does this come across as AFC and too nice if so do you guys have any better suggestions to use ? thanks
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Opinions on calling chicks hun/babe etc....
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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stick to baby, girls dont like babe and hun isnt even somethin a guy should be saying
Ace of Flames
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Little nicknames are cute, but certain ones just make you look like half of an old married couple. Stuff like "sugar" or "honey" or "sweetie" just scream out that you like her way more than she likes you.
Just say things like "babygirl" or "baby", and even then, only if you can play it off naturally. There's nothing scarier than a mild-mannered quiet kinda guy that walks up to a girl and tries to be smooth by saying "Hey baby".
Just say things like "babygirl" or "baby", and even then, only if you can play it off naturally. There's nothing scarier than a mild-mannered quiet kinda guy that walks up to a girl and tries to be smooth by saying "Hey baby".
donjuanjovi
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Saying stupid baby names like that makes it look like you're owned. Stick with her name.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I've call women that I'm friendly with "baby" in normal conversation out of habit and I have been told by a few they like it. Oh well, if it works run with it! 