Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Opening girls on a bus-stop
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
"hey, what time does the bus get here?"
"Hey, you look pretty bored waiting there....."
I'd eventually lead it into the story where (feel free to steal this) I didn't have any money, so I made out I was foreign and had little English...bus driver let me on free. (Do an accent, always gets a laugh)
And she was reading music. All I had to do was to ask her:
"I'm curious. HOw do you know wich notes are you singuing?"
But guess what...
I did not start the conversation. And I still regret it. I must force myself to approach next time.
Anyway, all you have to say is:
"I hate waiting for the bus alone, so you're gonna have to put up with me
"(A wink when approaching is always the cherry on the top of the cake).
Don't forget: Smile, look in her eyes, be nice and tottaly alpha (like all of you can be if you really want).
That's it. Just ask her something then. In my opinion you should start asking something like:
"So, where are you from?"
Or something about whatever's happening arround you.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
One time i was on the bus and an old lady started cussing and the bus driver threatened to kill her and throw her dead body at the wrong destination...Okay well not really but she was cussing a storm and the bus driver called cops. Thats what I like about buses, you never know what you are gonna get...Its like sex with a hooker.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Blah blah blah
Edit: The girl here wanted to put on random smiles so I let her......
:kick: :trouble: :moon: :cheer: :cuss: :wave: :woo:
....weird girl.....im about to get hit.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.