"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Opening girls on a bus-stop

hck332

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Give us some advice. You're waiting for a bus, a girl is there, too. How would you open her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Zeus

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Well.. how about the best and most simple! "HI!" ;)
 

WesCottII

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FFFFF, thats easy,

"hey, what time does the bus get here?"
"Hey, you look pretty bored waiting there....."

I'd eventually lead it into the story where (feel free to steal this) I didn't have any money, so I made out I was foreign and had little English...bus driver let me on free. (Do an accent, always gets a laugh)
 

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That happaned to me one time.
And she was reading music. All I had to do was to ask her:
"I'm curious. HOw do you know wich notes are you singuing?"
But guess what...
I did not start the conversation. And I still regret it. I must force myself to approach next time.

Anyway, all you have to say is:
"I hate waiting for the bus alone, so you're gonna have to put up with me ;) "
(A wink when approaching is always the cherry on the top of the cake).
Don't forget: Smile, look in her eyes, be nice and tottaly alpha (like all of you can be if you really want).

That's it. Just ask her something then. In my opinion you should start asking something like:
"So, where are you from?"
Or something about whatever's happening arround you.
 

bob2007

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Have you been waiting long? I hope I wont be late for .... (something interesting).

One time a girl asked me the time, and then I asked her where she was going ... blablabla.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The problem is transitioning from a mindless conversation into a pickup.
 

KoalaKing

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Simply say "Hi" and if she likes you she will open herself up for a conversation and if she doesn't she will block you off, it is impossible to be rejected in this situation so I don't know why it would be so difficult to just say "Hi" to her. :D
 

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U been here long?

One time i was on the bus and an old lady started cussing and the bus driver threatened to kill her and throw her dead body at the wrong destination...Okay well not really but she was cussing a storm and the bus driver called cops. Thats what I like about buses, you never know what you are gonna get...Its like sex with a hooker.
 

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Neil Strauss Opener......Can I get ur opinion on something?

Blah blah blah







Edit: The girl here wanted to put on random smiles so I let her......

:kick: :trouble: :moon: :cheer: :cuss: :wave: :woo:

....weird girl.....im about to get hit.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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