"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Opening girls on a bus-stop
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
"hey, what time does the bus get here?"
"Hey, you look pretty bored waiting there....."
I'd eventually lead it into the story where (feel free to steal this) I didn't have any money, so I made out I was foreign and had little English...bus driver let me on free. (Do an accent, always gets a laugh)
And she was reading music. All I had to do was to ask her:
"I'm curious. HOw do you know wich notes are you singuing?"
But guess what...
I did not start the conversation. And I still regret it. I must force myself to approach next time.
Anyway, all you have to say is:
"I hate waiting for the bus alone, so you're gonna have to put up with me
"(A wink when approaching is always the cherry on the top of the cake).
Don't forget: Smile, look in her eyes, be nice and tottaly alpha (like all of you can be if you really want).
That's it. Just ask her something then. In my opinion you should start asking something like:
"So, where are you from?"
Or something about whatever's happening arround you.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
One time i was on the bus and an old lady started cussing and the bus driver threatened to kill her and throw her dead body at the wrong destination...Okay well not really but she was cussing a storm and the bus driver called cops. Thats what I like about buses, you never know what you are gonna get...Its like sex with a hooker.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Blah blah blah
Edit: The girl here wanted to put on random smiles so I let her......
:kick: :trouble: :moon: :cheer: :cuss: :wave: :woo:
....weird girl.....im about to get hit.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.