"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Opening girls on a bus-stop
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
"hey, what time does the bus get here?"
"Hey, you look pretty bored waiting there....."
I'd eventually lead it into the story where (feel free to steal this) I didn't have any money, so I made out I was foreign and had little English...bus driver let me on free. (Do an accent, always gets a laugh)
And she was reading music. All I had to do was to ask her:
"I'm curious. HOw do you know wich notes are you singuing?"
But guess what...
I did not start the conversation. And I still regret it. I must force myself to approach next time.
Anyway, all you have to say is:
"I hate waiting for the bus alone, so you're gonna have to put up with me
"(A wink when approaching is always the cherry on the top of the cake).
Don't forget: Smile, look in her eyes, be nice and tottaly alpha (like all of you can be if you really want).
That's it. Just ask her something then. In my opinion you should start asking something like:
"So, where are you from?"
Or something about whatever's happening arround you.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
One time i was on the bus and an old lady started cussing and the bus driver threatened to kill her and throw her dead body at the wrong destination...Okay well not really but she was cussing a storm and the bus driver called cops. Thats what I like about buses, you never know what you are gonna get...Its like sex with a hooker.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Blah blah blah
Edit: The girl here wanted to put on random smiles so I let her......
:kick: :trouble: :moon: :cheer: :cuss: :wave: :woo:
....weird girl.....im about to get hit.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.