"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Opening girls on a bus-stop

hck332

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Give us some advice. You're waiting for a bus, a girl is there, too. How would you open her?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Zeus

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Well.. how about the best and most simple! "HI!" ;)
 

WesCottII

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FFFFF, thats easy,

"hey, what time does the bus get here?"
"Hey, you look pretty bored waiting there....."

I'd eventually lead it into the story where (feel free to steal this) I didn't have any money, so I made out I was foreign and had little English...bus driver let me on free. (Do an accent, always gets a laugh)
 

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That happaned to me one time.
And she was reading music. All I had to do was to ask her:
"I'm curious. HOw do you know wich notes are you singuing?"
But guess what...
I did not start the conversation. And I still regret it. I must force myself to approach next time.

Anyway, all you have to say is:
"I hate waiting for the bus alone, so you're gonna have to put up with me ;) "
(A wink when approaching is always the cherry on the top of the cake).
Don't forget: Smile, look in her eyes, be nice and tottaly alpha (like all of you can be if you really want).

That's it. Just ask her something then. In my opinion you should start asking something like:
"So, where are you from?"
Or something about whatever's happening arround you.
 

bob2007

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Have you been waiting long? I hope I wont be late for .... (something interesting).

One time a girl asked me the time, and then I asked her where she was going ... blablabla.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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aftershock

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The problem is transitioning from a mindless conversation into a pickup.
 

KoalaKing

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Simply say "Hi" and if she likes you she will open herself up for a conversation and if she doesn't she will block you off, it is impossible to be rejected in this situation so I don't know why it would be so difficult to just say "Hi" to her. :D
 

Microphone Fiend

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U been here long?

One time i was on the bus and an old lady started cussing and the bus driver threatened to kill her and throw her dead body at the wrong destination...Okay well not really but she was cussing a storm and the bus driver called cops. Thats what I like about buses, you never know what you are gonna get...Its like sex with a hooker.
 

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Neil Strauss Opener......Can I get ur opinion on something?

Blah blah blah







Edit: The girl here wanted to put on random smiles so I let her......

:kick: :trouble: :moon: :cheer: :cuss: :wave: :woo:

....weird girl.....im about to get hit.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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