backseatjuan
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I get a lot of chicks that just don't answer to me. I took initiative to ask some of them wtf went wrong and it was that I wasn't their type.
How to fix that?
How to fix that?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Online: You're not my type.
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mike32ct
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Online depends heavily on looks. So the standard advice applies. Work out, get a cool hair style (or shaved), cool clothes, etc. Even then you will get plenty of rejections. Women are more picky about looks than men could ever hope to be.
Plus looks are not necessarily about being "handsome.". A guy could have an average or even ugly face and be considered hot by women if he has the height, build, or other physical characteristics she's into.
Plus looks are not necessarily about being "handsome.". A guy could have an average or even ugly face and be considered hot by women if he has the height, build, or other physical characteristics she's into.
backseatjuan
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Ok, I'm bellow average. How to be their type. Anything I can say online?
Mantis Toboggan
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I hate to be the resident "Troll buster", but look at this guy's posting history.
He's a troll. Nothing to see here.
He's a troll. Nothing to see here.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.