backseatjuan
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I get a lot of chicks that just don't answer to me. I took initiative to ask some of them wtf went wrong and it was that I wasn't their type.
How to fix that?
How to fix that?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Online: You're not my type.
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Mike32ct
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Online depends heavily on looks. So the standard advice applies. Work out, get a cool hair style (or shaved), cool clothes, etc. Even then you will get plenty of rejections. Women are more picky about looks than men could ever hope to be.
Plus looks are not necessarily about being "handsome.". A guy could have an average or even ugly face and be considered hot by women if he has the height, build, or other physical characteristics she's into.
Plus looks are not necessarily about being "handsome.". A guy could have an average or even ugly face and be considered hot by women if he has the height, build, or other physical characteristics she's into.
backseatjuan
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Ok, I'm bellow average. How to be their type. Anything I can say online?
Mantis Toboggan
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I hate to be the resident "Troll buster", but look at this guy's posting history.
He's a troll. Nothing to see here.
He's a troll. Nothing to see here.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.