backseatjuan
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I get a lot of chicks that just don't answer to me. I took initiative to ask some of them wtf went wrong and it was that I wasn't their type.
How to fix that?
How to fix that?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Online: You're not my type.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Mike32ct
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Online depends heavily on looks. So the standard advice applies. Work out, get a cool hair style (or shaved), cool clothes, etc. Even then you will get plenty of rejections. Women are more picky about looks than men could ever hope to be.
Plus looks are not necessarily about being "handsome.". A guy could have an average or even ugly face and be considered hot by women if he has the height, build, or other physical characteristics she's into.
Plus looks are not necessarily about being "handsome.". A guy could have an average or even ugly face and be considered hot by women if he has the height, build, or other physical characteristics she's into.
backseatjuan
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Ok, I'm bellow average. How to be their type. Anything I can say online?
Mantis Toboggan
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I hate to be the resident "Troll buster", but look at this guy's posting history.
He's a troll. Nothing to see here.
He's a troll. Nothing to see here.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.