"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey,

I was thinking about online dating because I'm really busy right now. I don't really have the first clue about it though. Any advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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da_hunter said:
don't do it. it's a total nightmare.
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Don't listen to that.

Humans naturally find things harder, or less enjoyable if they are new, and you can find an alternative that you can do better (field dating).

Get good at it, and you will be enjoying yourself alot.

But remember, never to only online date, you need to get out there in field.

I suggest Grant Adams Net2Bed book, it's very good.
 
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Search the forum. There's a ton of advice already posted.
 
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Don't do the online dating thing untill you are good at meeting women in person... and realize that the person you are talking to could be very different from her profile.

Be cautious, but if you want have fun with it while you do... cause it is easy to at least make female contacts.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lust said:
Don't listen to that.

Humans naturally find things harder, or less enjoyable if they are new, and you can find an alternative that you can do better (field dating).

Get good at it, and you will be enjoying yourself alot.

But remember, never to only online date, you need to get out there in field.

I suggest Grant Adams Net2Bed book, it's very good.
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It's interesting that out of all the posts on this board, there is only one posts that mentions Grant Adams Net2Bed book, and that, it appears to have a positive review. I'm thinking of buying into his system down the line - with a 60 day money back guarantee what is there to lose.

Anyone else has tried this one out?
 
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