"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey,

I was thinking about online dating because I'm really busy right now. I don't really have the first clue about it though. Any advice?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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da_hunter said:
don't do it. it's a total nightmare.
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Don't listen to that.

Humans naturally find things harder, or less enjoyable if they are new, and you can find an alternative that you can do better (field dating).

Get good at it, and you will be enjoying yourself alot.

But remember, never to only online date, you need to get out there in field.

I suggest Grant Adams Net2Bed book, it's very good.
 
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Search the forum. There's a ton of advice already posted.
 
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Don't do the online dating thing untill you are good at meeting women in person... and realize that the person you are talking to could be very different from her profile.

Be cautious, but if you want have fun with it while you do... cause it is easy to at least make female contacts.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lust said:
Don't listen to that.

Humans naturally find things harder, or less enjoyable if they are new, and you can find an alternative that you can do better (field dating).

Get good at it, and you will be enjoying yourself alot.

But remember, never to only online date, you need to get out there in field.

I suggest Grant Adams Net2Bed book, it's very good.
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It's interesting that out of all the posts on this board, there is only one posts that mentions Grant Adams Net2Bed book, and that, it appears to have a positive review. I'm thinking of buying into his system down the line - with a 60 day money back guarantee what is there to lose.

Anyone else has tried this one out?
 
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