"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hov

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Hey,

I was thinking about online dating because I'm really busy right now. I don't really have the first clue about it though. Any advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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da_hunter said:
don't do it. it's a total nightmare.
Don't listen to that.

Humans naturally find things harder, or less enjoyable if they are new, and you can find an alternative that you can do better (field dating).

Get good at it, and you will be enjoying yourself alot.

But remember, never to only online date, you need to get out there in field.

I suggest Grant Adams Net2Bed book, it's very good.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Search the forum. There's a ton of advice already posted.
 

So pimp its scary

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Don't do the online dating thing untill you are good at meeting women in person... and realize that the person you are talking to could be very different from her profile.

Be cautious, but if you want have fun with it while you do... cause it is easy to at least make female contacts.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Lust said:
Don't listen to that.

Humans naturally find things harder, or less enjoyable if they are new, and you can find an alternative that you can do better (field dating).

Get good at it, and you will be enjoying yourself alot.

But remember, never to only online date, you need to get out there in field.

I suggest Grant Adams Net2Bed book, it's very good.
It's interesting that out of all the posts on this board, there is only one posts that mentions Grant Adams Net2Bed book, and that, it appears to have a positive review. I'm thinking of buying into his system down the line - with a 60 day money back guarantee what is there to lose.

Anyone else has tried this one out?
 
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