Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hov

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Hey,

I was thinking about online dating because I'm really busy right now. I don't really have the first clue about it though. Any advice?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lust

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da_hunter said:
don't do it. it's a total nightmare.
Don't listen to that.

Humans naturally find things harder, or less enjoyable if they are new, and you can find an alternative that you can do better (field dating).

Get good at it, and you will be enjoying yourself alot.

But remember, never to only online date, you need to get out there in field.

I suggest Grant Adams Net2Bed book, it's very good.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Search the forum. There's a ton of advice already posted.
 

So pimp its scary

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Don't do the online dating thing untill you are good at meeting women in person... and realize that the person you are talking to could be very different from her profile.

Be cautious, but if you want have fun with it while you do... cause it is easy to at least make female contacts.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lust said:
Don't listen to that.

Humans naturally find things harder, or less enjoyable if they are new, and you can find an alternative that you can do better (field dating).

Get good at it, and you will be enjoying yourself alot.

But remember, never to only online date, you need to get out there in field.

I suggest Grant Adams Net2Bed book, it's very good.
It's interesting that out of all the posts on this board, there is only one posts that mentions Grant Adams Net2Bed book, and that, it appears to have a positive review. I'm thinking of buying into his system down the line - with a 60 day money back guarantee what is there to lose.

Anyone else has tried this one out?
 
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