"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Don't listen to that.da_hunter said:don't do it. it's a total nightmare.
Humans naturally find things harder, or less enjoyable if they are new, and you can find an alternative that you can do better (field dating).
Get good at it, and you will be enjoying yourself alot.
But remember, never to only online date, you need to get out there in field.
I suggest Grant Adams Net2Bed book, it's very good.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Be cautious, but if you want have fun with it while you do... cause it is easy to at least make female contacts.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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It's interesting that out of all the posts on this board, there is only one posts that mentions Grant Adams Net2Bed book, and that, it appears to have a positive review. I'm thinking of buying into his system down the line - with a 60 day money back guarantee what is there to lose.Lust said:Don't listen to that.
Humans naturally find things harder, or less enjoyable if they are new, and you can find an alternative that you can do better (field dating).
Get good at it, and you will be enjoying yourself alot.
But remember, never to only online date, you need to get out there in field.
I suggest Grant Adams Net2Bed book, it's very good.
Anyone else has tried this one out?