mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Who cares if shes not fvcking dont worry about her. Some of them are freaks. The guys said keep it simple and you will find opportunity all around you.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Online dating experts, I need your help
- Thread starter bigdave17
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
some questions for you
1)When I first started doing it, I had 2 or 3 women interested in me. Now I'm dwindling down to nothing. Is this normal?
2)Will having pics that rate in that 8-9 range get me attractive women interested in me on dating profiles? My summary is almost exactly same as yours. I just can't get anybody who wants to go out with me.
3)What's your idea on having a professional photographer? they can take very good quality pics but still make it look casual. I feel like a professional will know exactly what to do to get great looking pics
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I used to know this really fat guy. He would never go to the gym. I asked him why not. He said those exercise bikes were stupid. All those people riding on them, and they never went anywhere. He kept telling me about his dream bike that he would buy and ride around, but only after he got in shape.
I would be 100% happy with that Italian girl if she was in a little better shape and I would be 100% happy with this Middle eastern girl if the family would not be a problem. A cute 7 who looks good with minimal to no makeup and has a nice body is probably my perfect sweet spot. My point is I'm not asking for a 10 or even a 9
I think if I had another shot with the Italian girl now starting from scratch, I would have gotten her out. I have good social skills - I'm just so desperate to meet someone that I come across too strong. I just need to keep it natural and stay within myself, I'll be fine. I learned my lesson. I'm going to try to get the middle eastern girl out this week
but I need to find a way to get more options, I can't succeed at this with 2 women interested in me.
That just shows you're an ignorant prick...my faith is Islam by birth...like the other 4M people in the US alone. Not all of us are terrorists or jihadis or whatever you think we are. Christians have done the dumbest and heinous sh*t in the past history so does that mean it's the religion's fault or is it the dumbass people who interpret religions in a way that favors their own agenda. For the record I've mostly only dated Christian women including my ex wife who I was with for a total of over a decade...and religions were never a point of contention because neither them nor I were hardcore religious.
Your maturity level is so pathetic.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm working on getting better with the women currently interested in me but how do I get more options online?
the only woman I'm talking to is the middle eastern chick. I'm hoping to meet her this week but i need more options
i read your thread and im doing what you said about profile. I'm going to get better pics. I dunno what else I can do
i will, we've been texting last 2 days. I want more options though
Didn't your thread walk through most of it? what did you omit ?
sazc
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Lol
Idk why you want to take on this kind of a project. You'd think that after a serious dry spell he would understand that he needs to get his mojo going again by taking out a few girls that were obviously into him, despite of they were his ideal....but nope....still railing on about looking for his ideal woman and how he must need to looks Max in order get her
You can spell it out and he'll refuse to see it
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You can't treat psychotic disorders through message boards...as it is pretty damn clear from all this already.
Watch out Dave she might be wearing a bomb vest! ROFL
I messaged everybody I thought who was kinda cute, I've only had 2 interested in me.
I never said anything about that. I just said I don't like the muslim overly religious lifestyle
truth be told, I wouldn't get along well with a hardcore christian chick either
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Exactly, so it's not about a particular religion being "the dumbest fvcking religion in the world" it's the extremism. If she's willing to date you chances are she's fairly liberal. You continue to c0ck block yourself mentally 'vegans, spelling, muslim, non-white skin, blah blah blah' and then you say I've sent msgs to "all the women" and I only got 2 women talking to me. Surprise surprise...and one of them is muslim lol.
no she doesn't care about religion but I get the sense she's one of those "no sex until marriage" types. That's how a lot of these muslim broads are raised
If we ignore him, then maybe he will stop
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.