Online dating experts, I need your help

[mrgoodstuff]

do you understand how strict a lot of muslim people are about sex?

Who cares if shes not fvcking dont worry about her. Some of them are freaks. The guys said keep it simple and you will find opportunity all around you.

 

[bigdave17]

You're already worried about meeting the parents when you haven't even gotten her out to meet you yet.

You're doing it all over again.

How many times do you need to be told not to touch a hot stove, Dave?

some questions for you

1)When I first started doing it, I had 2 or 3 women interested in me. Now I'm dwindling down to nothing. Is this normal?

2)Will having pics that rate in that 8-9 range get me attractive women interested in me on dating profiles? My summary is almost exactly same as yours. I just can't get anybody who wants to go out with me.

3)What's your idea on having a professional photographer? they can take very good quality pics but still make it look casual. I feel like a professional will know exactly what to do to get great looking pics

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I used to know this really fat guy. He would never go to the gym. I asked him why not. He said those exercise bikes were stupid. All those people riding on them, and they never went anywhere. He kept telling me about his dream bike that he would buy and ride around, but only after he got in shape.

 

[bigdave17]

There is usually an influx with a new ad. After 2 weeks or so it tends to drift off and after a month it dies out, with occasional interest here and there. This is typical for all OLD sites. So, yes. It's not unusual.




Dave, do you remember all of those times people told you that you should be practicing on women interested in you rather than hotties?

Well guess what. That's exactly what you're doing right now. And you still haven't gotten one out for a drink yet.

You're not going to get a 9 out for a drink when you cant even get a 7 to do the same. Better pics will be completely irrelevant until you learn how to materialize your opportunities.

I would be 100% happy with that Italian girl if she was in a little better shape and I would be 100% happy with this Middle eastern girl if the family would not be a problem. A cute 7 who looks good with minimal to no makeup and has a nice body is probably my perfect sweet spot. My point is I'm not asking for a 10 or even a 9


I think if I had another shot with the Italian girl now starting from scratch, I would have gotten her out. I have good social skills - I'm just so desperate to meet someone that I come across too strong. I just need to keep it natural and stay within myself, I'll be fine. I learned my lesson. I'm going to try to get the middle eastern girl out this week


but I need to find a way to get more options, I can't succeed at this with 2 women interested in me.

 

[HankHill]

the middle eastern girl started messaging me

she's very cute but I have very little faith in this working out - mostly because I hate dealing with Muslim families. She herself is not religious at all but I'm sure her family are full of wackjobs who don't believe in sex before marriage

Dumbest ****ing religion in the world - Islam

That just shows you're an ignorant prick...my faith is Islam by birth...like the other 4M people in the US alone. Not all of us are terrorists or jihadis or whatever you think we are. Christians have done the dumbest and heinous sh*t in the past history so does that mean it's the religion's fault or is it the dumbass people who interpret religions in a way that favors their own agenda. For the record I've mostly only dated Christian women including my ex wife who I was with for a total of over a decade...and religions were never a point of contention because neither them nor I were hardcore religious.
Your maturity level is so pathetic.

 

[bigdave17]

My point here is, Dave, that until you learn how to handle yourself with these women, the only thing a better rating pic will do for you is attract more women you are going to keep failing with.

You can have a 99% attraction rating on Photofeeler, you can have attractive women coming out of the woodwork to initiate with you, but your current results are not going to change until you do.

Anyway... short story about assumptions, Dave.

I met a girl years ago. She was the preacher's daughter. Showing a little interest in me. I thought sure as sh*t there was no way those panties were coming off without a ring.

She turned out to be one of the freakiest b*tches I ever slept with. She taught me sh*t I still use to this day.

The world is a funny place. Always full of surprises...

I'm working on getting better with the women currently interested in me but how do I get more options online?

 

[bigdave17]

I'll show you what I do myself to maximize presence and interest, but you have to give me something first.

Have a woman meet you for a drink.

Don't care how it goes from there. Just do that.

the only woman I'm talking to is the middle eastern chick. I'm hoping to meet her this week but i need more options

i read your thread and im doing what you said about profile. I'm going to get better pics. I dunno what else I can do

 

[sazc]

He doesn't get it. I get it, he doesn't

 

[bigdave17]

I'll walk you through everything.

Focus on this girl for the moment. Just look for a cup of coffee here, Dave, not a soul mate.

i will, we've been texting last 2 days. I want more options though

Didn't your thread walk through most of it? what did you omit ?

 

[sazc]

Wanna grab a cup of coffee? Lol. J/K.

Lol
Idk why you want to take on this kind of a project. You'd think that after a serious dry spell he would understand that he needs to get his mojo going again by taking out a few girls that were obviously into him, despite of they were his ideal....but nope....still railing on about looking for his ideal woman and how he must need to looks Max in order get her
You can spell it out and he'll refuse to see it

 

[HankHill]

Because he is the ultimate challenge. lol. I can't resist.

You can't treat psychotic disorders through message boards...as it is pretty damn clear from all this already.

 

[HankHill]

I'll walk you through everything.

Focus on this girl for the moment. Just look for a cup of coffee here, Dave, not a soul mate.

Watch out Dave she might be wearing a bomb vest! ROFL

 

[bigdave17]

Lol
Idk why you want to take on this kind of a project. You'd think that after a serious dry spell he would understand that he needs to get his mojo going again by taking out a few girls that were obviously into him, despite of they were his ideal....but nope....still railing on about looking for his ideal woman and how he must need to looks Max in order get her
You can spell it out and he'll refuse to see it

I messaged everybody I thought who was kinda cute, I've only had 2 interested in me.

 

[spinich]

Heard Muslims are not real accepting of being gay...best not mention that in your multiple texts. Just saying.....

 

[bigdave17]

Watch out Dave she might be wearing a bomb vest! ROFL

I never said anything about that. I just said I don't like the muslim overly religious lifestyle


truth be told, I wouldn't get along well with a hardcore christian chick either

 

[Chi Town]

NO MORE BIG DAVE THREADS!

 

[HankHill]

I never said anything about that. I just said I don't like the muslim overly religious lifestyle


truth be told, I wouldn't get along well with a hardcore christian chick either

Exactly, so it's not about a particular religion being "the dumbest fvcking religion in the world" it's the extremism. If she's willing to date you chances are she's fairly liberal. You continue to c0ck block yourself mentally 'vegans, spelling, muslim, non-white skin, blah blah blah' and then you say I've sent msgs to "all the women" and I only got 2 women talking to me. Surprise surprise...and one of them is muslim lol.

 

[sazc]

"messaged all the women"
So, with your criteria, what was that? About five women?

I dare you to swipe right on every woman and see what you get

 

[bigdave17]

Exactly, so it's not about a particular religion being "the dumbest fvcking religion in the world" it's the extremism. If she's willing to date you chances are she's fairly liberal. You continue to c0ck block yourself mentally 'vegans, spelling, muslim, non-white skin, blah blah blah' and then you say I've sent msgs to "all the women" and I only got 2 women talking to me. Surprise surprise...and one of them is muslim lol.

no she doesn't care about religion but I get the sense she's one of those "no sex until marriage" types. That's how a lot of these muslim broads are raised

 

[Chi Town]

Exactly, so it's not about a particular religion being "the dumbest fvcking religion in the world" it's the extremism. If she's willing to date you chances are she's fairly liberal. You continue to c0ck block yourself mentally 'vegans, spelling, muslim, non-white skin, blah blah blah' and then you say I've sent msgs to "all the women" and I only got 2 women talking to me. Surprise surprise...and one of them is muslim lol.

If we ignore him, then maybe he will stop