mrgoodstuff
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Your d1ck shouldnt care. Enjoy the process. The woman that gets you back in the game doesnt necessarily need to be the one you end with.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Online dating experts, I need your help
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
sazc
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Talk to both of them. Ask questions. Continue conversing by keying off of what they say. After a hand full of exchanges, ask if they are free for a drink tomorrow.
Ask BOTH of them out. Meet both of them. You need the practice
mrgoodstuff
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After 10-20 successes the world will be his oyster.
sazc
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I believe and understand this, he does not
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Your type needs to be the one who wants to fvck you. Get picky later. Your manhood needs to be taken care of.If one is not Muslim, I'm in. She's exactly my type
mrgoodstuff
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Probably a tight body hottie too
lamath
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If shes not a prude i dont see the problem
Give it to her so good she will want to convert to christianity lol
mrgoodstuff
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The "hookup" and "dating" religion is FAR from Christianity, Judaism or Islam.
Respect your dyck. Youve been treating him like shyt.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
lamath
Master Don Juan
IDK why but it feels like Dave is always setting up ridiculous reason to validate not going for it.
Let your standard drop a little and after a few hook up you will loosen up
lol you're not banging and chucking a muslim chick
I just have a specific type. That broad is nowhere near a 9 or a 10. I think she is beautiful but you guys probably consider a 6
sazc
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I'm with the dudes, go for the lay. Respect the dyck first. You'll feel invigorated.
The one thing I can tell you for sure @bigdave17 is that you are going to look back on this time and wonder why YOU made it so difficult for yourself. I just hope you aren't single and reflecting about that. But that particular situation seems inevitable
UR going to be 40 or 50 and single if you don't stop blocking yourself
The one thing I can tell you for sure @bigdave17 is that you are going to look back on this time and wonder why YOU made it so difficult for yourself. I just hope you aren't single and reflecting about that. But that particular situation seems inevitable
UR going to be 40 or 50 and single if you don't stop blocking yourself
I just want my ethnic hottie who has a similar/compatible lifestyle and personality to me
Every time I see some good looking Indian or Arab dude, he has a hot Indian or Arab broad 3-6 years younger than him around her. Why is this so much to ask for?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lamath
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She is good looking
Also you are only 29 time to experiment so you can learn what you really want and thats not only physicaly i can tell you that
sazc
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When I was your age, I used to see decent looking dudes with women who had a some extra lbs. I didn't understand why they were dating fatties and I was single. Now I realize that my dating impediment was because I didn't give enough dudes a real chance, I disqualified them to quickly. Looking back, I wish I had put myself out more and given guys more of a chance.
You are young, throw caution to the wind and DATE everyone. You don't have to bang them, but take them out for coffee and see what they are about.
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Good looking women on online dating sites? Hate to break it to you, but chances are that they are bots lol, and if not that then they probably have dozens of messages in their inbox and because of this don't even read most of them.
Online Dating= Waste of time, I don't get why guys even bother with it.
Online Dating= Waste of time, I don't get why guys even bother with it.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Thats how you learn to know what you want and dont want in a relationship.
That experience is priceless
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.