"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mrgoodstuff

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I finally got a couple conversations going - no surprise, both are brown girls, which I'm totally cool with

One is really cute but I'm afraid she's muslim
other one is christian but she's not that cute
Your d1ck shouldnt care. Enjoy the process. The woman that gets you back in the game doesnt necessarily need to be the one you end with.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sazc

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I finally got a couple conversations going - no surprise, both are brown girls, which I'm totally cool with

One is really cute but I'm afraid she's muslim
other one is christian but she's not that cute
Talk to both of them. Ask questions. Continue conversing by keying off of what they say. After a hand full of exchanges, ask if they are free for a drink tomorrow.

Ask BOTH of them out. Meet both of them. You need the practice
 

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Talk to both of them. Ask questions. Continue conversing by keying off of what they say. After a hand full of exchanges, ask if they are free for a drink tomorrow.

Ask BOTH of them out. Meet both of them. You need the practice
After 10-20 successes the world will be his oyster.
 

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Talk to both of them. Ask questions. Continue conversing by keying off of what they say. After a hand full of exchanges, ask if they are free for a drink tomorrow.

Ask BOTH of them out. Meet both of them. You need the practice

If one is not Muslim, I'm in. She's exactly my type


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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mrgoodstuff

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If shes not a prude i dont see the problem
Give it to her so good she will want to convert to christianity lol
The "hookup" and "dating" religion is FAR from Christianity, Judaism or Islam.

Respect your dyck. Youve been treating him like shyt.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The "hookup" and "dating" religion is FAR from Christianity, Judaism or Islam.

Respect your dyck. Youve been treating him like shyt.
IDK why but it feels like Dave is always setting up ridiculous reason to validate not going for it.
Let your standard drop a little and after a few hook up you will loosen up
 

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IDK why but it feels like Dave is always setting up ridiculous reason to validate not going for it.
Let your standard drop a little and after a few hook up you will loosen up
I just have a specific type. That broad is nowhere near a 9 or a 10. I think she is beautiful but you guys probably consider a 6
 

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I'm with the dudes, go for the lay. Respect the dyck first. You'll feel invigorated.

The one thing I can tell you for sure @bigdave17 is that you are going to look back on this time and wonder why YOU made it so difficult for yourself. I just hope you aren't single and reflecting about that. But that particular situation seems inevitable

UR going to be 40 or 50 and single if you don't stop blocking yourself
 

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I'm with the dudes, go for the lay. Respect the dyck first. You'll feel invigorated.

The one thing I can tell you for sure @bigdave17 is that you are going to look back on this time and wonder why YOU made it so difficult for yourself. I just hope you aren't single and reflecting about that. But that particular situation seems inevitable

UR going to be 40 or 50 and single if you don't stop blocking yourself
I just want my ethnic hottie who has a similar/compatible lifestyle and personality to me


Every time I see some good looking Indian or Arab dude, he has a hot Indian or Arab broad 3-6 years younger than him around her. Why is this so much to ask for?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I just have a specific type. That broad is nowhere near a 9 or a 10. I think she is beautiful but you guys probably consider a 6
She is good looking
Also you are only 29 time to experiment so you can learn what you really want and thats not only physicaly i can tell you that
 

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I just want my ethnic hottie who has a similar/compatible lifestyle and personality to me


Every time I see some good looking Indian or Arab dude, he has a hot Indian or Arab broad 3-6 years younger than him around her. Why is this so much to ask for?
When I was your age, I used to see decent looking dudes with women who had a some extra lbs. I didn't understand why they were dating fatties and I was single. Now I realize that my dating impediment was because I didn't give enough dudes a real chance, I disqualified them to quickly. Looking back, I wish I had put myself out more and given guys more of a chance.

You are young, throw caution to the wind and DATE everyone. You don't have to bang them, but take them out for coffee and see what they are about.
 

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Good looking women on online dating sites? Hate to break it to you, but chances are that they are bots lol, and if not that then they probably have dozens of messages in their inbox and because of this don't even read most of them.

Online Dating= Waste of time, I don't get why guys even bother with it.
 

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When I was your age, I used to see decent looking dudes with women who had a some extra lbs. I didn't understand why they were dating fatties and I was single. Now I realize that my dating impediment was because I didn't give enough dudes a real chance, I disqualified them to quickly. Looking back, I wish I had put myself out more and given guys more of a chance.

You are young, throw caution to the wind and DATE everyone. You don't have to bang them, but take them out for coffee and see what they are about.
Thats how you learn to know what you want and dont want in a relationship.
That experience is priceless
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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