ladiesman217
Don Juan
I've been doing good on online dating, but I want to take it to the next level. I've been able to get many numbers, but I want more. What's the best way to write a profile, first message, and status updates?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
online datin
- Thread starter ladiesman217
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
A little piece of tough love right here but the game is played out there, not on the computer. The computer is safe and the rewards are limiting. You should take your game outside for sure.
But for help with your question, try having pics that you and other girls in it or you doing some cool action thing. Statuses, you can go inspirational, funny, thought provoking or whatever you feel like writing when you you don't have anything to write. First message - hey usually works, with thought out comment about something on their page.
But for help with your question, try having pics that you and other girls in it or you doing some cool action thing. Statuses, you can go inspirational, funny, thought provoking or whatever you feel like writing when you you don't have anything to write. First message - hey usually works, with thought out comment about something on their page.
ladiesman217
Don Juan
Okay thank you. What about my bio?
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
The hottest girls have no need for internet dating. Look elsewhere for sex.
ladiesman217
Don Juan
I don't want sex. I'm after dates
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
BPH
Master Don Juan
Facebook has only ever gotten me laid once and that we because I knew the girl prior to that.
Don't do it, stop being a pu***, go out and meet girls. Not hard.
Don't do it, stop being a pu***, go out and meet girls. Not hard.