ladiesman217
Don Juan
I've been doing good on online dating, but I want to take it to the next level. I've been able to get many numbers, but I want more. What's the best way to write a profile, first message, and status updates?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
A little piece of tough love right here but the game is played out there, not on the computer. The computer is safe and the rewards are limiting. You should take your game outside for sure.
But for help with your question, try having pics that you and other girls in it or you doing some cool action thing. Statuses, you can go inspirational, funny, thought provoking or whatever you feel like writing when you you don't have anything to write. First message - hey usually works, with thought out comment about something on their page.
But for help with your question, try having pics that you and other girls in it or you doing some cool action thing. Statuses, you can go inspirational, funny, thought provoking or whatever you feel like writing when you you don't have anything to write. First message - hey usually works, with thought out comment about something on their page.
ladiesman217
Don Juan
Okay thank you. What about my bio?
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
The hottest girls have no need for internet dating. Look elsewhere for sex.
ladiesman217
Don Juan
I don't want sex. I'm after dates
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BPH
Master Don Juan
Facebook has only ever gotten me laid once and that we because I knew the girl prior to that.
Don't do it, stop being a pu***, go out and meet girls. Not hard.
Don't do it, stop being a pu***, go out and meet girls. Not hard.