ladiesman217
Don Juan
I've been doing good on online dating, but I want to take it to the next level. I've been able to get many numbers, but I want more. What's the best way to write a profile, first message, and status updates?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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- Thread starter ladiesman217
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
A little piece of tough love right here but the game is played out there, not on the computer. The computer is safe and the rewards are limiting. You should take your game outside for sure.
But for help with your question, try having pics that you and other girls in it or you doing some cool action thing. Statuses, you can go inspirational, funny, thought provoking or whatever you feel like writing when you you don't have anything to write. First message - hey usually works, with thought out comment about something on their page.
But for help with your question, try having pics that you and other girls in it or you doing some cool action thing. Statuses, you can go inspirational, funny, thought provoking or whatever you feel like writing when you you don't have anything to write. First message - hey usually works, with thought out comment about something on their page.
ladiesman217
Don Juan
Okay thank you. What about my bio?
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
The hottest girls have no need for internet dating. Look elsewhere for sex.
ladiesman217
Don Juan
I don't want sex. I'm after dates
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
BPH
Master Don Juan
Facebook has only ever gotten me laid once and that we because I knew the girl prior to that.
Don't do it, stop being a pu***, go out and meet girls. Not hard.
Don't do it, stop being a pu***, go out and meet girls. Not hard.