ladiesman217
Don Juan
I've been doing good on online dating, but I want to take it to the next level. I've been able to get many numbers, but I want more. What's the best way to write a profile, first message, and status updates?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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- Thread starter ladiesman217
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
A little piece of tough love right here but the game is played out there, not on the computer. The computer is safe and the rewards are limiting. You should take your game outside for sure.
But for help with your question, try having pics that you and other girls in it or you doing some cool action thing. Statuses, you can go inspirational, funny, thought provoking or whatever you feel like writing when you you don't have anything to write. First message - hey usually works, with thought out comment about something on their page.
But for help with your question, try having pics that you and other girls in it or you doing some cool action thing. Statuses, you can go inspirational, funny, thought provoking or whatever you feel like writing when you you don't have anything to write. First message - hey usually works, with thought out comment about something on their page.
ladiesman217
Don Juan
Okay thank you. What about my bio?
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
The hottest girls have no need for internet dating. Look elsewhere for sex.
ladiesman217
Don Juan
I don't want sex. I'm after dates
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
BPH
Master Don Juan
Facebook has only ever gotten me laid once and that we because I knew the girl prior to that.
Don't do it, stop being a pu***, go out and meet girls. Not hard.
Don't do it, stop being a pu***, go out and meet girls. Not hard.