“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bawb14

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What is it.... i have searched for like 30 minutes now I cant find an article which actually states what it is! From what I gather it's when you get attached to one chick, right?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's when you focus on just one girl. I had that recently. Not good. You always want to have a few options.
 
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Two extremes there shezz! How about going on 2.5 week gf haha
 
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If you are exclusive with the girl, IMHO there is nothing wrong with oneitis.

The trap many fall into is when they are dating, or looking to date a certain girl and just focus on her.

I've done that, it just drives them away faster.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Shezz said:
It's not bad per se. It depends on who the girl is and the type of relationship you have.

One-itis focusses on a girl that you barely know, and probably have never talked to. Or it could be a girl that you've talked to in the past, but messed up through inane conversation or desperate actions. Either way, you are probably not going to get laid.

On the other hand, if you've been seeing a girl for years and she is your only love. That could be describe as a one-itis, and that would be good.

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Oneitis can also be a girl you dated and are trying to get back. And then she starts taking up all your thoughts and usually she's rejecting you.

That's the worse type of oneitis right there.
 
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Its true, oneitis is bad if youre not in a relationship because you just focus on one girl and when things get rough with her or it breaks off completely youre left feeling like S***. A cute girl LOST ME recently, it didnt bother me cause I have 3 others on the go;) if it was me last december, I would have been an emo kid everyday.
 
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