I've known this girl for a year now, and lately we have been getting together.. like 2 months ago i was kissing with her but then she started going cold and I just forgot her, but last week she invited me to her place and we made out etc, and last weekend i went to her summer cottage and we almost had sex. Well, she was so wet but after 5 hours of making out etc.. I didn't get a hard on anymore.. Had condoms on etc, she was asking for sex. Sad, really sad. She has this other guy she is kindah dating, but she told me that she isn't sure what she wants to do with him.. our thing is like.. we don't yell it out, because we have many good friends in common and I used to date this girls' bestfriend a year ago.. Today I asked her if I can come over after exams, and she said no, because she had to go to the mall and after that see this guy she has been dating (he is going to stay overnight, and they are gonna ****. thats for sure. she told me that they have been ****ing etc..).. so whatta **** should I do? What am I? Some teddy bear she is just using? I like this girl and I know she likes me, and I am a little embarrassed about what happened on saturday. So should I stop calling her etc.. and wait for her move? She is really *****y girl and soo many guys want to date her and try to hit her.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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- Thread starter Park
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Master Don Juan
What do you mean, you "like" her?Park said:What am I? Some teddy bear she is just using? I like this girl and I know she likes me, and I am a little embarrassed about what happened on saturday. So should I stop calling her etc.. and wait for her move? She is really *****y girl and soo many guys want to date her and try to hit her.
She should be nothing more than a sexual object to you. Bang her and don't get emotional or stop talking to her all together.
Don't get all misty-eyed dreaming of holding hands, skipping through strawberry fields and having a fulfilling relationship with this flaky girl who's hooking up with at least 2 guys at the same time.
She's playing the field and you should be doing the same.
do nothing, the harder you try, the worse the outcome will be at this point. She has to come after you now, and she only may if she breaks up with whoever she is seeing and needs a distraction. so be aware of this and dont let your emotions come gushing back and take control of your ass.
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Master Don Juan
PairPlusRoyalFlush said:LISTENTOGANGSTERRAPLISTENTOGANGSTERRAPLISTENTOGANGSTERRAPLISTENTOGANGSTERRAPLISTEN....
seriously though, it will get you a mindset about women that is sadly a lot healthier than the AFC **** found in other music genres.
Eh. No.
And I like rap....sometimes...but we're grown men, not 12 year olds. Music isn't going to change you from a AFC to a lady's man. I'll put on some rap if I'm going to the gym for a long workout. Not if I want to completely change my philosophy on being a man.
You might as well have told him to watch more war movies.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.