I've known this girl for a year now, and lately we have been getting together.. like 2 months ago i was kissing with her but then she started going cold and I just forgot her, but last week she invited me to her place and we made out etc, and last weekend i went to her summer cottage and we almost had sex. Well, she was so wet but after 5 hours of making out etc.. I didn't get a hard on anymore.. Had condoms on etc, she was asking for sex. Sad, really sad. She has this other guy she is kindah dating, but she told me that she isn't sure what she wants to do with him.. our thing is like.. we don't yell it out, because we have many good friends in common and I used to date this girls' bestfriend a year ago.. Today I asked her if I can come over after exams, and she said no, because she had to go to the mall and after that see this guy she has been dating (he is going to stay overnight, and they are gonna ****. thats for sure. she told me that they have been ****ing etc..).. so whatta **** should I do? What am I? Some teddy bear she is just using? I like this girl and I know she likes me, and I am a little embarrassed about what happened on saturday. So should I stop calling her etc.. and wait for her move? She is really *****y girl and soo many guys want to date her and try to hit her.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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What do you mean, you "like" her?Park said:What am I? Some teddy bear she is just using? I like this girl and I know she likes me, and I am a little embarrassed about what happened on saturday. So should I stop calling her etc.. and wait for her move? She is really *****y girl and soo many guys want to date her and try to hit her.
She should be nothing more than a sexual object to you. Bang her and don't get emotional or stop talking to her all together.
Don't get all misty-eyed dreaming of holding hands, skipping through strawberry fields and having a fulfilling relationship with this flaky girl who's hooking up with at least 2 guys at the same time.
She's playing the field and you should be doing the same.
do nothing, the harder you try, the worse the outcome will be at this point. She has to come after you now, and she only may if she breaks up with whoever she is seeing and needs a distraction. so be aware of this and dont let your emotions come gushing back and take control of your ass.
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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:LISTENTOGANGSTERRAPLISTENTOGANGSTERRAPLISTENTOGANGSTERRAPLISTENTOGANGSTERRAPLISTEN....
seriously though, it will get you a mindset about women that is sadly a lot healthier than the AFC **** found in other music genres.
Eh. No.
And I like rap....sometimes...but we're grown men, not 12 year olds. Music isn't going to change you from a AFC to a lady's man. I'll put on some rap if I'm going to the gym for a long workout. Not if I want to completely change my philosophy on being a man.
You might as well have told him to watch more war movies.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.