I've known this girl for a year now, and lately we have been getting together.. like 2 months ago i was kissing with her but then she started going cold and I just forgot her, but last week she invited me to her place and we made out etc, and last weekend i went to her summer cottage and we almost had sex. Well, she was so wet but after 5 hours of making out etc.. I didn't get a hard on anymore.. Had condoms on etc, she was asking for sex. Sad, really sad. She has this other guy she is kindah dating, but she told me that she isn't sure what she wants to do with him.. our thing is like.. we don't yell it out, because we have many good friends in common and I used to date this girls' bestfriend a year ago.. Today I asked her if I can come over after exams, and she said no, because she had to go to the mall and after that see this guy she has been dating (he is going to stay overnight, and they are gonna ****. thats for sure. she told me that they have been ****ing etc..).. so whatta **** should I do? What am I? Some teddy bear she is just using? I like this girl and I know she likes me, and I am a little embarrassed about what happened on saturday. So should I stop calling her etc.. and wait for her move? She is really *****y girl and soo many guys want to date her and try to hit her.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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What do you mean, you "like" her?Park said:What am I? Some teddy bear she is just using? I like this girl and I know she likes me, and I am a little embarrassed about what happened on saturday. So should I stop calling her etc.. and wait for her move? She is really *****y girl and soo many guys want to date her and try to hit her.
She should be nothing more than a sexual object to you. Bang her and don't get emotional or stop talking to her all together.
Don't get all misty-eyed dreaming of holding hands, skipping through strawberry fields and having a fulfilling relationship with this flaky girl who's hooking up with at least 2 guys at the same time.
She's playing the field and you should be doing the same.
do nothing, the harder you try, the worse the outcome will be at this point. She has to come after you now, and she only may if she breaks up with whoever she is seeing and needs a distraction. so be aware of this and dont let your emotions come gushing back and take control of your ass.
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seriously though, it will get you a mindset about women that is sadly a lot healthier than the AFC **** found in other music genres.
Eh. No.
And I like rap....sometimes...but we're grown men, not 12 year olds. Music isn't going to change you from a AFC to a lady's man. I'll put on some rap if I'm going to the gym for a long workout. Not if I want to completely change my philosophy on being a man.
You might as well have told him to watch more war movies.
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