I've known this girl for a year now, and lately we have been getting together.. like 2 months ago i was kissing with her but then she started going cold and I just forgot her, but last week she invited me to her place and we made out etc, and last weekend i went to her summer cottage and we almost had sex. Well, she was so wet but after 5 hours of making out etc.. I didn't get a hard on anymore.. Had condoms on etc, she was asking for sex. Sad, really sad. She has this other guy she is kindah dating, but she told me that she isn't sure what she wants to do with him.. our thing is like.. we don't yell it out, because we have many good friends in common and I used to date this girls' bestfriend a year ago.. Today I asked her if I can come over after exams, and she said no, because she had to go to the mall and after that see this guy she has been dating (he is going to stay overnight, and they are gonna ****. thats for sure. she told me that they have been ****ing etc..).. so whatta **** should I do? What am I? Some teddy bear she is just using? I like this girl and I know she likes me, and I am a little embarrassed about what happened on saturday. So should I stop calling her etc.. and wait for her move? She is really *****y girl and soo many guys want to date her and try to hit her.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Master Don Juan
What do you mean, you "like" her?Park said:What am I? Some teddy bear she is just using? I like this girl and I know she likes me, and I am a little embarrassed about what happened on saturday. So should I stop calling her etc.. and wait for her move? She is really *****y girl and soo many guys want to date her and try to hit her.
She should be nothing more than a sexual object to you. Bang her and don't get emotional or stop talking to her all together.
Don't get all misty-eyed dreaming of holding hands, skipping through strawberry fields and having a fulfilling relationship with this flaky girl who's hooking up with at least 2 guys at the same time.
She's playing the field and you should be doing the same.
do nothing, the harder you try, the worse the outcome will be at this point. She has to come after you now, and she only may if she breaks up with whoever she is seeing and needs a distraction. so be aware of this and dont let your emotions come gushing back and take control of your ass.
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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:LISTENTOGANGSTERRAPLISTENTOGANGSTERRAPLISTENTOGANGSTERRAPLISTENTOGANGSTERRAPLISTEN....
seriously though, it will get you a mindset about women that is sadly a lot healthier than the AFC **** found in other music genres.
Eh. No.
And I like rap....sometimes...but we're grown men, not 12 year olds. Music isn't going to change you from a AFC to a lady's man. I'll put on some rap if I'm going to the gym for a long workout. Not if I want to completely change my philosophy on being a man.
You might as well have told him to watch more war movies.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.