"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Howdy all....I am in an interesting situation....there is a girl in a couple of my classes this semester as well as last semester, with whom i built quite a rapport with....flirting, tickling, all that kind of stuff, like a couple almost ( well the couples I have been in have been like this....)

I'll keep it brief, she has a boyfriend of a year who is apparently a real badass but he has no friends from what I hear...How to get a girl like this away from her boyfriend....any advice?

Second of all, we treat each other like little kids, but in a more sensual way, if that makes any sense. The only thing is, she thinks I am TOO funny almost....like too funny that she can't take me seriously....How can I change that?

Thanks in advance gents
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls don't read minds. If you want to be taken seriously, let her know you're serious. Telling her that you think you and her should do something is a start. This goes for women with and without partners.
 
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just ask her out. If she uses the bf line just say "Don't worry, I don't mind being compared to him...I know I'll win." or something along those lines. Be confident.
 
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davester88 said:
Howdy all....I am in an interesting situation....there is a girl in a couple of my classes this semester as well as last semester, with whom i built quite a rapport with....flirting, tickling, all that kind of stuff, like a couple almost ( well the couples I have been in have been like this....)

I'll keep it brief, she has a boyfriend of a year who is apparently a real badass but he has no friends from what I hear...How to get a girl like this away from her boyfriend....any advice?

Second of all, we treat each other like little kids, but in a more sensual way, if that makes any sense. The only thing is, she thinks I am TOO funny almost....like too funny that she can't take me seriously....How can I change that?

Thanks in advance gents
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If his weakness is that he doesn't have much friends, it's where you target.

You start building a huge load of social proof, then subtly point out how much more social and fun you are then him.

Once you think the time is right (Don't overthink it, it will pass), just ask her out sometime.

Her: I have a boyfriend
Me: Awesome, can he cook?
Her: Huh?
Me: Maybe we could get together sometime and he can cook us dinner.

Boom, conveys huge personality and confidence. Attraction goes through the roof.
 
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