"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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davester88

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Howdy all....I am in an interesting situation....there is a girl in a couple of my classes this semester as well as last semester, with whom i built quite a rapport with....flirting, tickling, all that kind of stuff, like a couple almost ( well the couples I have been in have been like this....)

I'll keep it brief, she has a boyfriend of a year who is apparently a real badass but he has no friends from what I hear...How to get a girl like this away from her boyfriend....any advice?

Second of all, we treat each other like little kids, but in a more sensual way, if that makes any sense. The only thing is, she thinks I am TOO funny almost....like too funny that she can't take me seriously....How can I change that?

Thanks in advance gents
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WC2

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Girls don't read minds. If you want to be taken seriously, let her know you're serious. Telling her that you think you and her should do something is a start. This goes for women with and without partners.
 

The Shocker

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just ask her out. If she uses the bf line just say "Don't worry, I don't mind being compared to him...I know I'll win." or something along those lines. Be confident.
 

Lust

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davester88 said:
Howdy all....I am in an interesting situation....there is a girl in a couple of my classes this semester as well as last semester, with whom i built quite a rapport with....flirting, tickling, all that kind of stuff, like a couple almost ( well the couples I have been in have been like this....)

I'll keep it brief, she has a boyfriend of a year who is apparently a real badass but he has no friends from what I hear...How to get a girl like this away from her boyfriend....any advice?

Second of all, we treat each other like little kids, but in a more sensual way, if that makes any sense. The only thing is, she thinks I am TOO funny almost....like too funny that she can't take me seriously....How can I change that?

Thanks in advance gents
If his weakness is that he doesn't have much friends, it's where you target.

You start building a huge load of social proof, then subtly point out how much more social and fun you are then him.

Once you think the time is right (Don't overthink it, it will pass), just ask her out sometime.

Her: I have a boyfriend
Me: Awesome, can he cook?
Her: Huh?
Me: Maybe we could get together sometime and he can cook us dinner.

Boom, conveys huge personality and confidence. Attraction goes through the roof.
 
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