"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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davester88

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Howdy all....I am in an interesting situation....there is a girl in a couple of my classes this semester as well as last semester, with whom i built quite a rapport with....flirting, tickling, all that kind of stuff, like a couple almost ( well the couples I have been in have been like this....)

I'll keep it brief, she has a boyfriend of a year who is apparently a real badass but he has no friends from what I hear...How to get a girl like this away from her boyfriend....any advice?

Second of all, we treat each other like little kids, but in a more sensual way, if that makes any sense. The only thing is, she thinks I am TOO funny almost....like too funny that she can't take me seriously....How can I change that?

Thanks in advance gents
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Girls don't read minds. If you want to be taken seriously, let her know you're serious. Telling her that you think you and her should do something is a start. This goes for women with and without partners.
 

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just ask her out. If she uses the bf line just say "Don't worry, I don't mind being compared to him...I know I'll win." or something along those lines. Be confident.
 

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davester88 said:
Howdy all....I am in an interesting situation....there is a girl in a couple of my classes this semester as well as last semester, with whom i built quite a rapport with....flirting, tickling, all that kind of stuff, like a couple almost ( well the couples I have been in have been like this....)

I'll keep it brief, she has a boyfriend of a year who is apparently a real badass but he has no friends from what I hear...How to get a girl like this away from her boyfriend....any advice?

Second of all, we treat each other like little kids, but in a more sensual way, if that makes any sense. The only thing is, she thinks I am TOO funny almost....like too funny that she can't take me seriously....How can I change that?

Thanks in advance gents
If his weakness is that he doesn't have much friends, it's where you target.

You start building a huge load of social proof, then subtly point out how much more social and fun you are then him.

Once you think the time is right (Don't overthink it, it will pass), just ask her out sometime.

Her: I have a boyfriend
Me: Awesome, can he cook?
Her: Huh?
Me: Maybe we could get together sometime and he can cook us dinner.

Boom, conveys huge personality and confidence. Attraction goes through the roof.
 
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