"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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davester88

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Howdy all....I am in an interesting situation....there is a girl in a couple of my classes this semester as well as last semester, with whom i built quite a rapport with....flirting, tickling, all that kind of stuff, like a couple almost ( well the couples I have been in have been like this....)

I'll keep it brief, she has a boyfriend of a year who is apparently a real badass but he has no friends from what I hear...How to get a girl like this away from her boyfriend....any advice?

Second of all, we treat each other like little kids, but in a more sensual way, if that makes any sense. The only thing is, she thinks I am TOO funny almost....like too funny that she can't take me seriously....How can I change that?

Thanks in advance gents
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Girls don't read minds. If you want to be taken seriously, let her know you're serious. Telling her that you think you and her should do something is a start. This goes for women with and without partners.
 

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just ask her out. If she uses the bf line just say "Don't worry, I don't mind being compared to him...I know I'll win." or something along those lines. Be confident.
 

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davester88 said:
Howdy all....I am in an interesting situation....there is a girl in a couple of my classes this semester as well as last semester, with whom i built quite a rapport with....flirting, tickling, all that kind of stuff, like a couple almost ( well the couples I have been in have been like this....)

I'll keep it brief, she has a boyfriend of a year who is apparently a real badass but he has no friends from what I hear...How to get a girl like this away from her boyfriend....any advice?

Second of all, we treat each other like little kids, but in a more sensual way, if that makes any sense. The only thing is, she thinks I am TOO funny almost....like too funny that she can't take me seriously....How can I change that?

Thanks in advance gents
If his weakness is that he doesn't have much friends, it's where you target.

You start building a huge load of social proof, then subtly point out how much more social and fun you are then him.

Once you think the time is right (Don't overthink it, it will pass), just ask her out sometime.

Her: I have a boyfriend
Me: Awesome, can he cook?
Her: Huh?
Me: Maybe we could get together sometime and he can cook us dinner.

Boom, conveys huge personality and confidence. Attraction goes through the roof.
 
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