SeymourCake
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bringing a stranger, a possible crazy BPD girl to your house and letting her know where you live is a no-no for me.And yet phaggots keep paying.
Chivalry is dead. Smash or next. Netflix and chill is inexpensive.
Coffee, drinks maybe, better yet, drinks at your place. Smash or next her.
Making money isn't the issue. The fact they are going out with you for the wrong reasons is.Make enough money to the point where this type of **** doesn't matter.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If cuckoldry is your thing then I recommend not watching porn.whats wrong with that? i even buy stuff for people who bullied me long ago in school
I go out with women just to **** them and nothing more. Does that make me a bad person? It's just the way the world works.Make enough money to the point where this type of **** doesn't matter.
I have no sympathy for these men, especially not in 2019 when even an idiot should know better. They need to read "Mode One: Let the women know what you're REALLY thinking" by Alan Roger Currie, and watch it on youtube.
So two thirds of women only date men because they want to deeply connect with him and build a solid relationship based on trust, respect, and love?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
One third were willing to admit it, but the numbers could be higher than that because maybe some women weren’t being honest when questioned.So two thirds of women only date men because they want to deeply connect with him and build a solid relationship based on trust, respect, and love?
In the "dating" world my estimate is 80% of dinner dates was a guy she has no sexual interest in. It follows the 80/20 rule.One third were willing to admit it, but the numbers could be higher than that because maybe some women weren’t being honest when questioned.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
To some of us her time has no value unless she sees us in a sexual light or she benefits our life in another way. Most of the guys her arent signing up to provide "free" dinners.Not a problem, keep ur dates cheap. They use you cause you have nothing to offer except expensive meal. The meal is entertaining and you are just the price to pay for admission.
If you have value, then you don't need to offer 3 star Michelin.
She's offering her time.
We are in agreement here. I have a friend who told me about a story from his early 20s when he met a girl at a club and brought her home, he was living at his parent's place at the time. Long story short, their place was robbed the next day.Bringing a stranger, a possible crazy BPD girl to your house and letting her know where you live is a no-no for me.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.