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One-Third of women admit they go on dates with men for free food

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And yet phaggots keep paying.

Chivalry is dead. Smash or next. Netflix and chill is inexpensive.

Coffee, drinks maybe, better yet, drinks at your place. Smash or next her.
 

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And yet phaggots keep paying.

Chivalry is dead. Smash or next. Netflix and chill is inexpensive.

Coffee, drinks maybe, better yet, drinks at your place. Smash or next her.
Bringing a stranger, a possible crazy BPD girl to your house and letting her know where you live is a no-no for me.
 

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Make enough money to the point where this type of **** doesn't matter.
 

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whats wrong with that? i even buy stuff for people who bullied me long ago in school
If cuckoldry is your thing then I recommend not watching porn.
 

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Make enough money to the point where this type of **** doesn't matter.
I go out with women just to **** them and nothing more. Does that make me a bad person? It's just the way the world works.
 

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I have no sympathy for these men, especially not in 2019 when even an idiot should know better. They need to read "Mode One: Let the women know what you're REALLY thinking" by Alan Roger Currie, and watch it on youtube.

Now as for OLD, it's similar to a laundry or waste treatment centrifuge. It doesn't only, but mostly just gathers up what you don't want, a woman who is one or multiple of: cluster B disorders (who are overrepresented both among "free food" exploiters and cheaters on OLD), single moms, validation farmers, princess syndromes, and the washed up from alcohol, smoking and bad choices. There is a small minority of men for whom OLD works, especially as you go up in age when mens' and womens' SMVs converge and in locations with a relative surplus of women like NYC, but I would advise most men to delete OLD and most of their antisocial media. It only holds them back from improving their lifestyle by giving the illusion of access to receptive women, while in reality just crushing their selfesteem and wasting their energy.
 
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So two thirds of women only date men because they want to deeply connect with him and build a solid relationship based on trust, respect, and love?
One third were willing to admit it, but the numbers could be higher than that because maybe some women weren’t being honest when questioned.
 

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One third were willing to admit it, but the numbers could be higher than that because maybe some women weren’t being honest when questioned.
In the "dating" world my estimate is 80% of dinner dates was a guy she has no sexual interest in. It follows the 80/20 rule.
 

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I abandoned dinner dates because it hurt my lay count. A few times I had chicks I had made out with on date one and obviously agreed to date two. Would LJBF me. Sometimes after I d already been in their panties.

I m pretty good at drawing them out and good on the chat so NFI.

switched to action dates or drinks for second date and lay count skyrocketed. Nuff said
 

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Of course they do. LMAO
Free food and entertainment.
I think the percentage in the article is low.

Women will choose going out to eat food over most activities. A friend of mine who does online dating, claims nearly every profile mentions “likes to eat out”
 

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Not that long ago my friend was telling me about a women he knows that will go out on a regular basis for lunch and dinner dates just for the food, at one point she was doing this on the daily. I don't care what anyone says, for a woman to take advantage of something like this is very low and she should feel ashamed of herself. The fact that such a high percentage of women do this really doesn't surprise me, but it's very sad to say the least. I've known of women that would go on dates with men just out of boredom, attention, etc.

This is why if you are meeting someone off of an OLD site or app like tinder just meet up at a bar and hang out and talk, have her pay for her own damn drink.

What kind of a world are we living in where one has to worry about just being used for stuff like this lol.
 

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Not a problem, keep ur dates cheap. They use you cause you have nothing to offer except expensive meal. The meal is entertaining and you are just the price to pay for admission.

If you have value, then you don't need to offer 3 star Michelin.
She's offering her time.
 

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Not a problem, keep ur dates cheap. They use you cause you have nothing to offer except expensive meal. The meal is entertaining and you are just the price to pay for admission.

If you have value, then you don't need to offer 3 star Michelin.
She's offering her time.
To some of us her time has no value unless she sees us in a sexual light or she benefits our life in another way. Most of the guys her arent signing up to provide "free" dinners.
 

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I think the take home is this,

Avoid OLD and apps, pretty sure a woman you meet in real life wouldn't go through all of this just for a free dinner.

Do something that is cheap and active, say mini golfing or bowling. A woman who is interested in any capacity would love to spend time with a guy doing something fun like that, where as an uninterested woman looking for free stuff or attention wouldn't be bothered.
 

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Bringing a stranger, a possible crazy BPD girl to your house and letting her know where you live is a no-no for me.
We are in agreement here. I have a friend who told me about a story from his early 20s when he met a girl at a club and brought her home, he was living at his parent's place at the time. Long story short, their place was robbed the next day.

Most people are genuinely ok to invite over but I would personally never invite a woman over to my place if I didn't know much about her, I thought **** like this was common sense lol.
 
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