SeymourCake
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That is, taking large steps as you walk.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
One thing I've done to make women (or people) notice me more
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MOTU
Master Don Juan
Sometimes I just break into a moonwalk. Chicks dig that. But be careful if the surface isn't smooth enough you can fall down.
backseatjuan
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The larger the step the faster you walk, I don't see how that can get you noticed, nor more importantely what message it conveys. Women are attracted to men that are not in a hurry. :flowers:
Getting noticed is not a problem, people notice all the time, it is conveying a certian perception that is problematic. We all have problems coveying our desires and intentions, that's why we are on sosuave.net. Ultimately you want to carry yourself in a certain way, dress a certain way, smell a certain way, do a certain thing in life, and be with certain people, to convey a certain message.
Getting noticed is not a problem, people notice all the time, it is conveying a certian perception that is problematic. We all have problems coveying our desires and intentions, that's why we are on sosuave.net. Ultimately you want to carry yourself in a certain way, dress a certain way, smell a certain way, do a certain thing in life, and be with certain people, to convey a certain message.
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TheMonkeyKing
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One thing I read which seems to help is to walk as though you are held by a piece of string through your sternum. Seems to have really helped the low level chronic back pain I've had and my hunched gait. Plus you can actually see people checking you out!
Obviously not to the extreme, or you do end up looking a bit stupid...
Obviously not to the extreme, or you do end up looking a bit stupid...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
I use my words sparingly , everything i say holds value if it doesn’t I don’t bother speaking
People genuinely tend to like this , motormouths are irritating and there’s far too many of them in society at the moment
Too get noticed by women il usually find her insecurities and use them against her ......this doesn’t always have a massive success rate and depending how high she has her bish shield up some of them may want to kill you
but it’s one hell of a quick way of finding out how seriously she takes herself
Clue: ( the less seriously the better)
People genuinely tend to like this , motormouths are irritating and there’s far too many of them in society at the moment
Too get noticed by women il usually find her insecurities and use them against her ......this doesn’t always have a massive success rate and depending how high she has her bish shield up some of them may want to kill you
but it’s one hell of a quick way of finding out how seriously she takes herself
Clue: ( the less seriously the better)
TheMonkeyKing
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Sternum and pubis aligned - therefore not leaning forward/hunching, and not leaned back, sticking your crotch in people's faces (yet). Just aligned.Dreesy said:
sph21
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I believe there are two ways people are noticing us when we walk. Whether we're being weird or being attractive. I love to walk slow even if I can surely walk fast as I'm not in a hurry and as If I own every place I'm into.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
zekko
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Before I started reading pickup material, I had always heard that women find you attractive when you walk fast. The reason being that it showed that you had a busy life and had places to go and people to see. Then I read some pickup stuff and they want to move slow like James Bond.backseatjuan said:
There are two sides to every story. Really, I don't think it makes all that much of a difference.