SeymourCake
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That is, taking large steps as you walk.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
One thing I've done to make women (or people) notice me more
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
MOTU
Master Don Juan
Sometimes I just break into a moonwalk. Chicks dig that. But be careful if the surface isn't smooth enough you can fall down.
backseatjuan
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The larger the step the faster you walk, I don't see how that can get you noticed, nor more importantely what message it conveys. Women are attracted to men that are not in a hurry. :flowers:
Getting noticed is not a problem, people notice all the time, it is conveying a certian perception that is problematic. We all have problems coveying our desires and intentions, that's why we are on sosuave.net. Ultimately you want to carry yourself in a certain way, dress a certain way, smell a certain way, do a certain thing in life, and be with certain people, to convey a certain message.
Getting noticed is not a problem, people notice all the time, it is conveying a certian perception that is problematic. We all have problems coveying our desires and intentions, that's why we are on sosuave.net. Ultimately you want to carry yourself in a certain way, dress a certain way, smell a certain way, do a certain thing in life, and be with certain people, to convey a certain message.
Tictac
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TheMonkeyKing
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One thing I read which seems to help is to walk as though you are held by a piece of string through your sternum. Seems to have really helped the low level chronic back pain I've had and my hunched gait. Plus you can actually see people checking you out!
Obviously not to the extreme, or you do end up looking a bit stupid...
Obviously not to the extreme, or you do end up looking a bit stupid...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bingo-Player
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I use my words sparingly , everything i say holds value if it doesn’t I don’t bother speaking
People genuinely tend to like this , motormouths are irritating and there’s far too many of them in society at the moment
Too get noticed by women il usually find her insecurities and use them against her ......this doesn’t always have a massive success rate and depending how high she has her bish shield up some of them may want to kill you
but it’s one hell of a quick way of finding out how seriously she takes herself
Clue: ( the less seriously the better)
People genuinely tend to like this , motormouths are irritating and there’s far too many of them in society at the moment
Too get noticed by women il usually find her insecurities and use them against her ......this doesn’t always have a massive success rate and depending how high she has her bish shield up some of them may want to kill you
but it’s one hell of a quick way of finding out how seriously she takes herself
Clue: ( the less seriously the better)
TheMonkeyKing
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Sternum and pubis aligned - therefore not leaning forward/hunching, and not leaned back, sticking your crotch in people's faces (yet). Just aligned.Dreesy said:
sph21
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I believe there are two ways people are noticing us when we walk. Whether we're being weird or being attractive. I love to walk slow even if I can surely walk fast as I'm not in a hurry and as If I own every place I'm into.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
zekko
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Before I started reading pickup material, I had always heard that women find you attractive when you walk fast. The reason being that it showed that you had a busy life and had places to go and people to see. Then I read some pickup stuff and they want to move slow like James Bond.backseatjuan said:
There are two sides to every story. Really, I don't think it makes all that much of a difference.