SeymourCake
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That is, taking large steps as you walk.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
One thing I've done to make women (or people) notice me more
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
MOTU
Master Don Juan
Sometimes I just break into a moonwalk. Chicks dig that. But be careful if the surface isn't smooth enough you can fall down.
backseatjuan
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The larger the step the faster you walk, I don't see how that can get you noticed, nor more importantely what message it conveys. Women are attracted to men that are not in a hurry. :flowers:
Getting noticed is not a problem, people notice all the time, it is conveying a certian perception that is problematic. We all have problems coveying our desires and intentions, that's why we are on sosuave.net. Ultimately you want to carry yourself in a certain way, dress a certain way, smell a certain way, do a certain thing in life, and be with certain people, to convey a certain message.
Getting noticed is not a problem, people notice all the time, it is conveying a certian perception that is problematic. We all have problems coveying our desires and intentions, that's why we are on sosuave.net. Ultimately you want to carry yourself in a certain way, dress a certain way, smell a certain way, do a certain thing in life, and be with certain people, to convey a certain message.
Tictac
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TheMonkeyKing
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One thing I read which seems to help is to walk as though you are held by a piece of string through your sternum. Seems to have really helped the low level chronic back pain I've had and my hunched gait. Plus you can actually see people checking you out!
Obviously not to the extreme, or you do end up looking a bit stupid...
Obviously not to the extreme, or you do end up looking a bit stupid...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bingo-Player
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I use my words sparingly , everything i say holds value if it doesn’t I don’t bother speaking
People genuinely tend to like this , motormouths are irritating and there’s far too many of them in society at the moment
Too get noticed by women il usually find her insecurities and use them against her ......this doesn’t always have a massive success rate and depending how high she has her bish shield up some of them may want to kill you
but it’s one hell of a quick way of finding out how seriously she takes herself
Clue: ( the less seriously the better)
People genuinely tend to like this , motormouths are irritating and there’s far too many of them in society at the moment
Too get noticed by women il usually find her insecurities and use them against her ......this doesn’t always have a massive success rate and depending how high she has her bish shield up some of them may want to kill you
but it’s one hell of a quick way of finding out how seriously she takes herself
Clue: ( the less seriously the better)
TheMonkeyKing
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Sternum and pubis aligned - therefore not leaning forward/hunching, and not leaned back, sticking your crotch in people's faces (yet). Just aligned.Dreesy said:
sph21
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I believe there are two ways people are noticing us when we walk. Whether we're being weird or being attractive. I love to walk slow even if I can surely walk fast as I'm not in a hurry and as If I own every place I'm into.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
zekko
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Before I started reading pickup material, I had always heard that women find you attractive when you walk fast. The reason being that it showed that you had a busy life and had places to go and people to see. Then I read some pickup stuff and they want to move slow like James Bond.backseatjuan said:
There are two sides to every story. Really, I don't think it makes all that much of a difference.