SeymourCake
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That is, taking large steps as you walk.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
One thing I've done to make women (or people) notice me more
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MOTU
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Sometimes I just break into a moonwalk. Chicks dig that. But be careful if the surface isn't smooth enough you can fall down.
backseatjuan
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The larger the step the faster you walk, I don't see how that can get you noticed, nor more importantely what message it conveys. Women are attracted to men that are not in a hurry. :flowers:
Getting noticed is not a problem, people notice all the time, it is conveying a certian perception that is problematic. We all have problems coveying our desires and intentions, that's why we are on sosuave.net. Ultimately you want to carry yourself in a certain way, dress a certain way, smell a certain way, do a certain thing in life, and be with certain people, to convey a certain message.
Getting noticed is not a problem, people notice all the time, it is conveying a certian perception that is problematic. We all have problems coveying our desires and intentions, that's why we are on sosuave.net. Ultimately you want to carry yourself in a certain way, dress a certain way, smell a certain way, do a certain thing in life, and be with certain people, to convey a certain message.
Tictac
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TheMonkeyKing
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One thing I read which seems to help is to walk as though you are held by a piece of string through your sternum. Seems to have really helped the low level chronic back pain I've had and my hunched gait. Plus you can actually see people checking you out!
Obviously not to the extreme, or you do end up looking a bit stupid...
Obviously not to the extreme, or you do end up looking a bit stupid...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bingo-Player
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I use my words sparingly , everything i say holds value if it doesn’t I don’t bother speaking
People genuinely tend to like this , motormouths are irritating and there’s far too many of them in society at the moment
Too get noticed by women il usually find her insecurities and use them against her ......this doesn’t always have a massive success rate and depending how high she has her bish shield up some of them may want to kill you
but it’s one hell of a quick way of finding out how seriously she takes herself
Clue: ( the less seriously the better)
People genuinely tend to like this , motormouths are irritating and there’s far too many of them in society at the moment
Too get noticed by women il usually find her insecurities and use them against her ......this doesn’t always have a massive success rate and depending how high she has her bish shield up some of them may want to kill you
but it’s one hell of a quick way of finding out how seriously she takes herself
Clue: ( the less seriously the better)
TheMonkeyKing
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Sternum and pubis aligned - therefore not leaning forward/hunching, and not leaned back, sticking your crotch in people's faces (yet). Just aligned.Dreesy said:
sph21
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I believe there are two ways people are noticing us when we walk. Whether we're being weird or being attractive. I love to walk slow even if I can surely walk fast as I'm not in a hurry and as If I own every place I'm into.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
zekko
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Before I started reading pickup material, I had always heard that women find you attractive when you walk fast. The reason being that it showed that you had a busy life and had places to go and people to see. Then I read some pickup stuff and they want to move slow like James Bond.backseatjuan said:
There are two sides to every story. Really, I don't think it makes all that much of a difference.