"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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One thing I've done to make women (or people) notice me more

SeymourCake

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That is, taking large steps as you walk.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sometimes I just break into a moonwalk. Chicks dig that. But be careful if the surface isn't smooth enough you can fall down.
 

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The larger the step the faster you walk, I don't see how that can get you noticed, nor more importantely what message it conveys. Women are attracted to men that are not in a hurry. :flowers:


Getting noticed is not a problem, people notice all the time, it is conveying a certian perception that is problematic. We all have problems coveying our desires and intentions, that's why we are on sosuave.net. Ultimately you want to carry yourself in a certain way, dress a certain way, smell a certain way, do a certain thing in life, and be with certain people, to convey a certain message.
 

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One thing I read which seems to help is to walk as though you are held by a piece of string through your sternum. Seems to have really helped the low level chronic back pain I've had and my hunched gait. Plus you can actually see people checking you out!

Obviously not to the extreme, or you do end up looking a bit stupid...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mangotot

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Opening poster - that is a lame post. I have just wasted 1 minute of my life.
 

Bingo-Player

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I use my words sparingly , everything i say holds value if it doesn’t I don’t bother speaking

People genuinely tend to like this , motormouths are irritating and there’s far too many of them in society at the moment

Too get noticed by women il usually find her insecurities and use them against her ......this doesn’t always have a massive success rate and depending how high she has her bish shield up some of them may want to kill you

but it’s one hell of a quick way of finding out how seriously she takes herself

Clue: ( the less seriously the better)
 

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Walk leading with your pelvis, not your head or torso. You aren't pelvic thrusting your way around, but you walk with almost slanted backwards a tiny bit, makes for a nicer stride and gives your walk that 'look'.
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Dreesy said:
Walk leading with your pelvis, not your head or torso. You aren't pelvic thrusting your way around, but you walk with almost slanted backwards a tiny bit, makes for a nicer stride and gives your walk that 'look'.
Sternum and pubis aligned - therefore not leaning forward/hunching, and not leaned back, sticking your crotch in people's faces (yet). Just aligned.
 

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I believe there are two ways people are noticing us when we walk. Whether we're being weird or being attractive. I love to walk slow even if I can surely walk fast as I'm not in a hurry and as If I own every place I'm into.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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backseatjuan said:
The larger the step the faster you walk, I don't see how that can get you noticed, nor more importantely what message it conveys. Women are attracted to men that are not in a hurry.
Before I started reading pickup material, I had always heard that women find you attractive when you walk fast. The reason being that it showed that you had a busy life and had places to go and people to see. Then I read some pickup stuff and they want to move slow like James Bond.

There are two sides to every story. Really, I don't think it makes all that much of a difference.
 
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