"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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one of many fears

spider_007

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In the middle of all the teasing and all, are you guys ever afraid the gurll might go psycho on you? I mean start screaming at you because your making fun of her, and saying all those "mean" things

I got the "sarcastic" sence of humor. The thing is i'm afraid of pushing my "jerk" values too far.

ever happened to anybody (on the first few meets)?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have reduced women to tears in the middle of a venue - more than once. After a while you just figure out where the line is.
 

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Originally posted by spider_007
In the middle of all the teasing and all, are you guys ever afraid the gurll might go psycho on you? I mean start screaming at you because your making fun of her, and saying all those "mean" things

I got the "sarcastic" sence of humor. The thing is i'm afraid of pushing my "jerk" values too far.

ever happened to anybody (on the first few meets)?

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

god i used CF back in the days before i even knew of such a concept!!
i would bust on a girl RELENTLESSLY!
this one girl ,god did i get under her skin. she'd fret and fume
all over the place..her face would turn red, she'd get all huffy,
cross her arms and pout.

the part i think David D left out was the part were you kinda chase after them after pissing them off.

you know when they are kinda quiet and pout, i always just go out to them and "act cute" to kinda defuse them and make them
feel better (you'll be SUPRISED how being all sweet & cuddly with chicks when they are pissed can totally defuse them!) and then later on do it again relentlessly!! god i am a prick!
:crackup:

it's a cycle of teasing and chasing-
i always did this so it comes natural to me.
you know when you are kinda mad at a girl
but when make up after a "talk" you just feel better?
thats the type of feeling.

as far as being seen as an a$$hole i personally don't care...
i have yet to meet a chick i can't defuse that i pissed off
from teasing her...
i just avoid saying anything really mean or personal and it's cool
 
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