"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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one of many fears

spider_007

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In the middle of all the teasing and all, are you guys ever afraid the gurll might go psycho on you? I mean start screaming at you because your making fun of her, and saying all those "mean" things

I got the "sarcastic" sence of humor. The thing is i'm afraid of pushing my "jerk" values too far.

ever happened to anybody (on the first few meets)?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have reduced women to tears in the middle of a venue - more than once. After a while you just figure out where the line is.
 

organizedconfusion

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Originally posted by spider_007
In the middle of all the teasing and all, are you guys ever afraid the gurll might go psycho on you? I mean start screaming at you because your making fun of her, and saying all those "mean" things

I got the "sarcastic" sence of humor. The thing is i'm afraid of pushing my "jerk" values too far.

ever happened to anybody (on the first few meets)?

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

god i used CF back in the days before i even knew of such a concept!!
i would bust on a girl RELENTLESSLY!
this one girl ,god did i get under her skin. she'd fret and fume
all over the place..her face would turn red, she'd get all huffy,
cross her arms and pout.

the part i think David D left out was the part were you kinda chase after them after pissing them off.

you know when they are kinda quiet and pout, i always just go out to them and "act cute" to kinda defuse them and make them
feel better (you'll be SUPRISED how being all sweet & cuddly with chicks when they are pissed can totally defuse them!) and then later on do it again relentlessly!! god i am a prick!
:crackup:

it's a cycle of teasing and chasing-
i always did this so it comes natural to me.
you know when you are kinda mad at a girl
but when make up after a "talk" you just feel better?
thats the type of feeling.

as far as being seen as an a$$hole i personally don't care...
i have yet to meet a chick i can't defuse that i pissed off
from teasing her...
i just avoid saying anything really mean or personal and it's cool
 
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