"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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one of many fears

spider_007

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In the middle of all the teasing and all, are you guys ever afraid the gurll might go psycho on you? I mean start screaming at you because your making fun of her, and saying all those "mean" things

I got the "sarcastic" sence of humor. The thing is i'm afraid of pushing my "jerk" values too far.

ever happened to anybody (on the first few meets)?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have reduced women to tears in the middle of a venue - more than once. After a while you just figure out where the line is.
 

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Originally posted by spider_007
In the middle of all the teasing and all, are you guys ever afraid the gurll might go psycho on you? I mean start screaming at you because your making fun of her, and saying all those "mean" things

I got the "sarcastic" sence of humor. The thing is i'm afraid of pushing my "jerk" values too far.

ever happened to anybody (on the first few meets)?

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

god i used CF back in the days before i even knew of such a concept!!
i would bust on a girl RELENTLESSLY!
this one girl ,god did i get under her skin. she'd fret and fume
all over the place..her face would turn red, she'd get all huffy,
cross her arms and pout.

the part i think David D left out was the part were you kinda chase after them after pissing them off.

you know when they are kinda quiet and pout, i always just go out to them and "act cute" to kinda defuse them and make them
feel better (you'll be SUPRISED how being all sweet & cuddly with chicks when they are pissed can totally defuse them!) and then later on do it again relentlessly!! god i am a prick!
:crackup:

it's a cycle of teasing and chasing-
i always did this so it comes natural to me.
you know when you are kinda mad at a girl
but when make up after a "talk" you just feel better?
thats the type of feeling.

as far as being seen as an a$$hole i personally don't care...
i have yet to meet a chick i can't defuse that i pissed off
from teasing her...
i just avoid saying anything really mean or personal and it's cool
 
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