"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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On Speaking W-O-M-A-N-E-S-E and foreigners

Being_the_Don

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We know that women don't tell us directly what they're thinking and use that language known as W-O-M-A-N-E-S-E. If you've read that in the Book of Pook it's quite a laugh and very useful. But what about women who don't speak English as their first language? They still would use it but their lack of language skills could get in the way. Like using W-O-M-A-N-E-S-E on them. Can a woman who speaks Spanish, Chinese or German for example get the subtle hints of W-O-M-A-N-E-S-E in English? I say they can but it's more of a challenge to drop the hints to them eg "I'm not looking for a girlfriend now." Some might take it literally and walk away.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'd imagine that the way women behave when they are playing games with men is ubiqitous in all females, and trancends language and culture. It's more of an evolutionary built-in thing, as opposed to a regional or cultural difference. Although it may be harder to communicate with foreign women on a purely conversational level, I would still imagine it to be rather easy to deduce characteristics such as body language and emotion.
 

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W-h-y-a-r-e-y-o-u-s-p-e-l-l-i-n-g-i-t-l-i-k-e-w-e-a-r-e-s-t-u-p-i-d-?
 

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mrRuckus said:
W-h-y-a-r-e-y-o-u-s-p-e-l-l-i-n-g-i-t-l-i-k-e-w-e-a-r-e-s-t-u-p-i-d-?

Because I found out that I couldn't type ********. It's censored. See?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Some kind of copyright thing with Doc Love, who invented the term.

Anyhow, the average foreign woman is even MORE indirect than the native English speaker. You will get more w-oman-ese.

They just don't have the fluency/comfort to say things bluntly. East Asians can be dam hard to read.
 
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