"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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On Speaking W-O-M-A-N-E-S-E and foreigners

Being_the_Don

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We know that women don't tell us directly what they're thinking and use that language known as W-O-M-A-N-E-S-E. If you've read that in the Book of Pook it's quite a laugh and very useful. But what about women who don't speak English as their first language? They still would use it but their lack of language skills could get in the way. Like using W-O-M-A-N-E-S-E on them. Can a woman who speaks Spanish, Chinese or German for example get the subtle hints of W-O-M-A-N-E-S-E in English? I say they can but it's more of a challenge to drop the hints to them eg "I'm not looking for a girlfriend now." Some might take it literally and walk away.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'd imagine that the way women behave when they are playing games with men is ubiqitous in all females, and trancends language and culture. It's more of an evolutionary built-in thing, as opposed to a regional or cultural difference. Although it may be harder to communicate with foreign women on a purely conversational level, I would still imagine it to be rather easy to deduce characteristics such as body language and emotion.
 

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W-h-y-a-r-e-y-o-u-s-p-e-l-l-i-n-g-i-t-l-i-k-e-w-e-a-r-e-s-t-u-p-i-d-?
 

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mrRuckus said:
W-h-y-a-r-e-y-o-u-s-p-e-l-l-i-n-g-i-t-l-i-k-e-w-e-a-r-e-s-t-u-p-i-d-?

Because I found out that I couldn't type ********. It's censored. See?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Some kind of copyright thing with Doc Love, who invented the term.

Anyhow, the average foreign woman is even MORE indirect than the native English speaker. You will get more w-oman-ese.

They just don't have the fluency/comfort to say things bluntly. East Asians can be dam hard to read.
 
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