"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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On Speaking W-O-M-A-N-E-S-E and foreigners

Being_the_Don

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We know that women don't tell us directly what they're thinking and use that language known as W-O-M-A-N-E-S-E. If you've read that in the Book of Pook it's quite a laugh and very useful. But what about women who don't speak English as their first language? They still would use it but their lack of language skills could get in the way. Like using W-O-M-A-N-E-S-E on them. Can a woman who speaks Spanish, Chinese or German for example get the subtle hints of W-O-M-A-N-E-S-E in English? I say they can but it's more of a challenge to drop the hints to them eg "I'm not looking for a girlfriend now." Some might take it literally and walk away.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'd imagine that the way women behave when they are playing games with men is ubiqitous in all females, and trancends language and culture. It's more of an evolutionary built-in thing, as opposed to a regional or cultural difference. Although it may be harder to communicate with foreign women on a purely conversational level, I would still imagine it to be rather easy to deduce characteristics such as body language and emotion.
 

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W-h-y-a-r-e-y-o-u-s-p-e-l-l-i-n-g-i-t-l-i-k-e-w-e-a-r-e-s-t-u-p-i-d-?
 

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mrRuckus said:
W-h-y-a-r-e-y-o-u-s-p-e-l-l-i-n-g-i-t-l-i-k-e-w-e-a-r-e-s-t-u-p-i-d-?

Because I found out that I couldn't type ********. It's censored. See?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some kind of copyright thing with Doc Love, who invented the term.

Anyhow, the average foreign woman is even MORE indirect than the native English speaker. You will get more w-oman-ese.

They just don't have the fluency/comfort to say things bluntly. East Asians can be dam hard to read.
 
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