"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gents and other creatures,

I have been enjoying myself over in the fitness section, highly recommend it :D Good guys over there. To the core matter of my post, I got a girl pregnant. We have been in an open relationship and riding bareback, things happen. You're welcome to rant. I'm not writing this post to take a rant about my choices but just let people know what I did so they have somewhere to start. First talk of pregnancy was when the condom was about to come off. I asked what she thought and of the consequences. We both agreed to deal with pregnancy with abortion and STD's in a rational manner. I got a text last nite saying we need to talk. Talk is good gents, trust me. I rang her and asked what about. Took her a bit and she said she was pregnant. I said this was a subject that required a talk and walk. I met her and we talked about her test and what she had already done. She had seen family planning and had a test by a doc. Doc said she was pregnant and seven weeks along. This explained why she felt sick and some of her grumpiness. I asked her about her abortion options with how far she had been along and timeframes. I listened to this and the rest of the story and gave my input on what I needed to. She has another appointment next Tuesday.

So that's the story so far. She didn't react badly or very emotionally as I didn't either. What I have learned so far is this is our problem not just her problem. We made a choice and we will go through this together. When you hear "I'm pregnant" it's not the end of the world. Remain calm. See her in person and talk about it in a rational manner. Keep your emotions as far away as possible. She wanted trust, and someone to look after her. This one of the big steps towards growing up as I am now responsible for someone else in a much bigger scale. Be a nice guy, throw any pick up **** out the window and fess up. It's my turn to grow up and be responsible.

I may add more to try and make a whole picture for the folks of the forum.

Good nite,
The Bandito
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Consider:

1. How do you know it's yours?

2. Have you actually seen the test results?

3. Abortion really messes up a girl's head. Adoption might cause regret later on, especially if the kid comes looking for you. Hard choices indeed.
 
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TheBandito said:
G Be a nice guy, throw any pick up **** out the window and fess up. It's my turn to grow up and be responsible.
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I want you to explain what you mean by be a nice guy, throw any pick up **** out the window and fess up.


What does that mean?

If you are an adult taking care of yourself you are already grown up and responsible. You are just taking on more responsiblity. That shaming language implies that you weren't before. Do you believe that you were a child and irresponsible before this pregnancy?


btw. I am a father, so I may have a slightly different view on this, which is why I ask.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I want you to explain what you mean by be a nice guy, throw any pick up **** out the window and fess up.


What does that mean?
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I was running around **** in hand doing as I pleased. I really didn't think as to the consequences of my actions. We know many "adults" that live by themselves, aren't bankrupt, and have a missus but are they mature?
 
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Some lyrics for you (these are actual real lyrics. The band's name is AC, which is short for two words that would get censored here. The name of the song is "You're pregnant, so I kicked you in the stomach":

There were no stairs to throw you down
There was no roof to throw you off
There were no coat hangers around
So I kicked you in the stomach


I'm sorry, I think this sh*t is funny, so I probably have a sick sense of humor haha.
 
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