TheBandito
Don Juan
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Gents and other creatures,
I have been enjoying myself over in the fitness section, highly recommend it
Good guys over there. To the core matter of my post, I got a girl pregnant. We have been in an open relationship and riding bareback, things happen. You're welcome to rant. I'm not writing this post to take a rant about my choices but just let people know what I did so they have somewhere to start. First talk of pregnancy was when the condom was about to come off. I asked what she thought and of the consequences. We both agreed to deal with pregnancy with abortion and STD's in a rational manner. I got a text last nite saying we need to talk. Talk is good gents, trust me. I rang her and asked what about. Took her a bit and she said she was pregnant. I said this was a subject that required a talk and walk. I met her and we talked about her test and what she had already done. She had seen family planning and had a test by a doc. Doc said she was pregnant and seven weeks along. This explained why she felt sick and some of her grumpiness. I asked her about her abortion options with how far she had been along and timeframes. I listened to this and the rest of the story and gave my input on what I needed to. She has another appointment next Tuesday.
So that's the story so far. She didn't react badly or very emotionally as I didn't either. What I have learned so far is this is our problem not just her problem. We made a choice and we will go through this together. When you hear "I'm pregnant" it's not the end of the world. Remain calm. See her in person and talk about it in a rational manner. Keep your emotions as far away as possible. She wanted trust, and someone to look after her. This one of the big steps towards growing up as I am now responsible for someone else in a much bigger scale. Be a nice guy, throw any pick up **** out the window and fess up. It's my turn to grow up and be responsible.
I may add more to try and make a whole picture for the folks of the forum.
Good nite,
The Bandito
I have been enjoying myself over in the fitness section, highly recommend it
Good guys over there. To the core matter of my post, I got a girl pregnant. We have been in an open relationship and riding bareback, things happen. You're welcome to rant. I'm not writing this post to take a rant about my choices but just let people know what I did so they have somewhere to start. First talk of pregnancy was when the condom was about to come off. I asked what she thought and of the consequences. We both agreed to deal with pregnancy with abortion and STD's in a rational manner. I got a text last nite saying we need to talk. Talk is good gents, trust me. I rang her and asked what about. Took her a bit and she said she was pregnant. I said this was a subject that required a talk and walk. I met her and we talked about her test and what she had already done. She had seen family planning and had a test by a doc. Doc said she was pregnant and seven weeks along. This explained why she felt sick and some of her grumpiness. I asked her about her abortion options with how far she had been along and timeframes. I listened to this and the rest of the story and gave my input on what I needed to. She has another appointment next Tuesday. So that's the story so far. She didn't react badly or very emotionally as I didn't either. What I have learned so far is this is our problem not just her problem. We made a choice and we will go through this together. When you hear "I'm pregnant" it's not the end of the world. Remain calm. See her in person and talk about it in a rational manner. Keep your emotions as far away as possible. She wanted trust, and someone to look after her. This one of the big steps towards growing up as I am now responsible for someone else in a much bigger scale. Be a nice guy, throw any pick up **** out the window and fess up. It's my turn to grow up and be responsible.
I may add more to try and make a whole picture for the folks of the forum.
Good nite,
The Bandito