Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
I've noticed that the longer I go without fapping, the more angry and sh!t I become. Is this just me? Am I just a sexually frustrated cvnt with no outlet?
Just wondering.
Just wondering.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
just give it time man.. things will get better.. try fapping without the porn..
sure it's boring. but you don't get the brain fog after you do it
sure it's boring. but you don't get the brain fog after you do it
Smell The Glove
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Try meditating.
Just sit quietly and focus on your breathing for 20 minutes.
Just sit quietly and focus on your breathing for 20 minutes.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Try having seexxxxx!
It does wonders for removing that frustration. Trust me.
It does wonders for removing that frustration. Trust me.
Smell The Glove
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That too.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Redempti0n
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Ofcourse you become angry and feel like sh!t.
That's a normal phase in giving up any addiction.
That's a normal phase in giving up any addiction.
Fatal Jay
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Sneevox said:
You will get angry faster, because your T levels are sky rocketing. That's why you need to channel your anger into working out, or using it for hobbies or talents. All that built in energy should be used to your advantage.
Also what redemption said is so true.
HedoRick
Senior Don Juan
I've started no fap... I've been driving like a maniac and flipping everyone off. It sucks, but now when I get pissy, I hit the gym and lift weights to the point of exhaustion. Also, I've started spinning plates again. Find a way to channel your rage into something productive. I personally think fapping is evil. Everytime you fap, the baby Jesus cries.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Why does whether or not you watch porn while doing it affect your sharpness/alertness (at least I assume that's what you meant by "brain fog")?Packers2010 said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
Heh, maybe it has nothing to do with fapping. I find that my confidence is down when I fap, though.
Good suggestion, by the way, Smell The Glove.
I meditate daily anyways.
Good suggestion, by the way, Smell The Glove.
I meditate daily anyways.